ABOUT US
We are a modern dating website with a difference. Modern, yet embracing traditional sets of values and behaviours in our approach to matchmaking between qualified, loyal, honest, and trustworthy males and females (‘Good humans’ as we like to call them).
We are Odogwuabroad.com, the website for mature adults. Intentional and purposeful adults who can differentiate between RIGHT and WRONG. A dating website that accommodates parents looking for genuine love for their children and married couples seeking to find a heartthrob for their online dating shy siblings or bosom friends. We are here to make a statement.
We acknowledge the changing cultural shift in societies (especially in the West) regarding dating and marriage. These shifts no doubt have brought about massive disruptions in the dating and marriage cultural spheres of our society.
We also note that cultural evolutions bring about philosophical changes in societies, hence, the prevailing philosophical belief in the modern-day relationship(marriage) space is one with a high degree of predictable outcome which equals DIVORCE.
Current statistics from different countries around the world suggest that the rate of divorce is on the high. There seems to be a crisis of relationship (dating/marriage) going on and for some reason, people are choosing to stay single instead of getting married. Some would say, oh! The odds are stacked against me, so, why bother when 50% of marriages end in divorce?
How did we get here?
Some would argue that the introduction of women into the workforce is the catalyst for the crisis. With the advent of World War 1&2, there was a great demand for women to be drafted into the labour force to make up for the loss occasioned by the decimation of the male population involved in the wars. So, to meet the demands of the industrial war complex, women were drafted en-masse into the production process.
Also, strides made in industrial and technological innovations which led to the mass production of household appliances that made household chores a lot easier than usual created spare time for women which was filled with more productive ventures. In a bid to acquire more appliances and live a better life, most women opted to join the labour force.
These subtle lifestyle changes made women adopt varying degrees of interaction between their bosses and colleagues on one hand and their husbands on the other.
With successes in the labour force and increased agitations for women’s rights and equality, new patterns of behavior began to emerge. Traditional models of male/female relationships moved to a double-masculinity type of environment with abrasive-confrontational conduct, argumentative, aggressive, manipulative, and combative attitudes detrimental to traditional gender roles of women which became overtly incompatible with harmonious relationships.
Our role.
Although the future looks bleak in the face of the shifting dating narrative, some have proffered solutions to the ongoing crisis.
While most men in the West who desire women with traditional values and behavior in dating and marriage are moving to countries with rich cultural/ traditional backgrounds in marriage, a movement known as Passport Bros has sprung up and is gaining a lot of attention.
Whether the rise of AI-powered human-like-fulllife-size-love-dolls will bring about the necessary balance or further disruptions in the dating marketplace is yet to be seen. However, some commentators see it as a short-term solution to the crisis.
We at odogwuabroad.com believe that Odogwu ( the successful diaspora/Sponsor) who yearns or desires a more culturally aligned companion is caught up in this crisis and forced by “Situationship” to enter into an un-natural relationship/marriage that ends in divorce. Yet, fails in his/her attempt to find love when importing the said traditionally aligned companion. Most of these relationships fall apart and the Nkem (sponsored) uses the platform as a setup for his/her goals.
In an attempt to bridge this crisis which goes deeper than we can elucidate here,
Our goal is to create a platform where good humans can congregate and find matches knowing that “God created them in His image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.” Gen; 1:27
The basic foundation of a good relationship/marriage is goodliness. Being a good human is essential to finding true love, peace, kindness, understanding, appreciation, and respect;
On this premise, we invite all people of goodwill to join us to make dating/relationship/marriage attractive again.
We understand that the traditional foundations of relationships/dating are under threat. Even in Africa, a seemingly more traditional terrain is now plagued with the trio evils of the “hookup culture”, “yahoo-yahoo” and “toxic femininity”. Yet, we must proclaim hope.
Hope that endears and guarantees that passport bros would not need to move to a distant country to find love, while AI-powered love-dolls would not find a place in our homes.
FOR WHAT GOD CANNOT DO, DOES NOT EXIST!
Our model is based on three principal areas; investigation, protection, and support.
Following a successful match on our platform, we highly recommend that the main sponsor engage us to conduct a brief or comprehensive background check on their partner. Our team can be trusted to verify the trustworthiness of your ‘date’ (babe) by conducting a lawful investigation within the framework of your request.
Expect our team to visit Nkem’s (sponsored) place of abode, parents/siblings where available, uncles, colleagues, friends, etc. Upon completion of the exercise, we shall hand over a report to the Odogwu (sponsor) for assessment and independent decision. This background check is important to save time and funds that would otherwise be spent chasing a dead-on-arrival relationship.
Besides this, the sponsor and the sponsored can request us to conduct a loyalty test on their partner, whether married or dating to ascertain their level of commitment.
We aim to continue our support to the sponsor (Odogwu and Nkem) by assisting through the process of reunion abroad. We plan to deploy our resources towards this end, should the need arise.
In conjunction with our legal team, we shall protect the sponsor to ensure that the sponsored does not leave Odogwu under flimsy excuses because they somehow arrived at their desired lifelong dream destination. This however does not mean an endorsement of servitude. Cases will be critically examined before our protection clause can be activated.
Marriable:
As part of our duties to unearth and give a platform to good men and women who would be suitable for lasting relationships and marriage, we shall conduct a series of random tests on random people in the streets of different cities and towns around the world.
People who succeed with these tests and are open and available to date/marry shall be featured on our website with the option for a blind date.
Spiritual Clinic:
We have found a place where impossibilities are made possible and delays in getting married are broken. The NSPPD daily prayer session is a must if you want to be successful in finding love in record time. We are glad to partner with the conveners for spiritual guidance to our members.
Reconnect with an ex:
We recognize that the dating marketplace has become a battleground for the strongest and the most manipulative. The common denominator called TRUST which hitherto held participants together has been shattered and scantily exists.
In hindsight, some would feel they could have acted better, made adjustments, or even compromised more in their past (lost) relationship.
We dare say, there is hope if only, you (member) are willing to make adjustments in your lifestyle. Show love, and affection, be patient, and make the most of every day. Remember, today here tomorrow gone. Life is indeed too short.
Contact us and together, we shall roll out an action plan to reconnect you.
Elite Match Making:
The dating crisis has undoubtedly created a lot of “gold-diggers”. Dating market participants are literarily going about with shovels to dip up and colonize wealth they never labored for. Hence, some elite end up marrying their house help or Will their estate to pets.
“The rich also cry”…..says, the world’s first Mexican telenovela.
Our elite dating service is a special program where elites only can register with us, separately from the regular member section. It begins with contacting us using the Contact Us form and we will send a registration link where you can fill out a profile that will be assessed by our team of experts.
We do request a non-refundable assessment fee of $100 to process your elite membership. This is necessary to forestall abuse and make it exciting and interesting for the real elites. The profile evaluation will require time which must be remunerated.
Upon approval, the candidate will be presented with matching profiles of other elites who are members of our network to make a choice.